Heidi Grave

My story with the name Heidi is dedicated To my American Cousin Heidi Aaskov and my aunt Heidi Klessinger the cousin of my father Jorg Köngeter.
Even if I did not spend a lot of time with my American Cousin I have very good memories about her and her husband Frank. When I visited Maine in 1986 Frank was teaching me Baseball witch i really enjoyed. When I can't sleep I always image a Baseball bat and I hit unwelcome thoughts away to the universe with it. My aunt Heidi Klessinger steps into the spotlight when it comes to the grave of my father. My fathers last wish was to be buried at the Kammerburg where Heidi Klessinger still lives. When we buried my father with a ceremony and stayed at her Alte Villa, Heidi was the only one who did not participate which still makes me wonder. During the time we spend there she had to mention her Jealousy towards the Köngeter family who always seemed very unapproachable and feeling better than everyone else. It is very interesting because her family is in charge of the Wach family legacy which includes a historic castle, land and Forrest in the whine area of the Rhein.

They already sold a lot of it to Haniel and keep doing it which seems insane to me since the next generations don't get to participate. . Even though my father is buried there I never went there again and probably won't. The trauma of the Jealousy is passed on to the next Generation. If you check out my Blood Devil Document from the Jan Donald card you see a clear pattern between the Herbig vs Köngeter side. 

What is your story with competition and jealousy in the family and the Name Heidi?