Eva Grabbing

This story is about the name Eva and dedicated to Eva Böhner. She is the owner of Amica Mea fitness in Dellbrück Cologne and was my girlfriend in my vaulting time. The story is about my Birthday at the 12.12.2010. My father had died the week before and we just had the funeral. There were a few people which were willing to celebrate with me in cologne. It was my brother, my cousin Jan Donald and their friend James. Robina and her boyfriend, who are dancers, and Eva. We had to decide where to go, and Eva started heavily to dominate where we celebrate. We tried to explain to her that it was my birthday and I wanted to go to a gay place. Eva somehow must have felt so uncountable with it that she took my cousin Jan Donald and left with him. When we were about to leave the Bar, they came back and had a thing going on. I decided to give them my key to my apartment to get closer. This was even ok for me, since I was cool with Eva and Jan-Donald having a one-night stand. I was working for Eva at this time, which was exciting because I was her first permanent employment. After the one-night stand, Eva and Jan were heavy in love, which made me feel not comfortable anymore. Eva had a boyfriend for a long time, and I was not sure if my cousin would be the right replacement to through her life away. I decided to talk with her mother about this, and her mother thought I was jealous. I told her that It was hard for me because I know that my little cousin would suffer from this. Furthermore, I would get loyal problems, and usually I was loyal to Eva. I had a flashback during the talk with her mother and felt shocked. The reason why I did flashback is that I still have fear that this family she is about to move to will kill me. I think it is a gay trauma of knowing too much. The family is connected to old German money, and no one really knows anything about this family cult. I did not reach her mother at all and decided to distant myself. Jobwise, Eva also immediately replaced me with Jan Donald for her company and fired me. From this moment all my family was more in contact with Jan Donald and Eva love story then with me. Even my mother, who did not really like Eva when we were together. In Eva and my relationship, she was never around my family. I was always part of her family. You have to imagine that my father just died a few days before. Three months after my birthday, Eva had broken up with her old boyfriend Ramon and was pregnant from my cousin. She went to all this prestige places like Kammerburg and Söll where I am abandoned from. I can’t even tell you how my cousin is all about wanting what the Köngeter have. The funny thing is they have already everything from the family. It is where I start to really question my mother and little brother of being loyal to them and sacrificing me. The Herbig family wants something and my mother gives it to them in support. This is why I knew the relationship would not work out because there is aggression behind Jan Donald of wanting things other people have. After Eva being pregnant, her mother got cancer and was about to die. My cousin did not understand, and they broke up. Eva got back to her boyfriend Ramon, who seemed more mature to handle a dying mother and a pregnant Eva. Then Eva's mother died and Jan and Eva got her son Paul on my Birthday one year later. By this moment, everyone had detached with me.The strange thing about the Herbig family is that they did nothing legal about Paul's custody situation. Eva did everything in her interest, and Jan Donald must have messed up so bad that they gave Eva all the parenting rights. When I talked to Eva a few years ago, she told me that she has troubles with the family because they don't pay for anything. I still feel to intervene sometimes. What is your story with the name Eva?